sexual knowledge

WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT?

It's An Age Old Question!

For men who are concerned about pleasing their lover in the bedroom, we thought that we'd provide you with a little erotic etiquette.Here are some guidelines for satisfying her most basic desires.

Know the Lay of the Land

Here's the deal boys – size may not matter, but skill does! Before you freak out though, here's a tip – the internet is full of information - other than porn. It is an excellent resource for the guy who thinks he's lacking knowledge in a particular area or if you're just looking for some new ideas.

Knowledge of the female body can sky rocket you from a 7 to a 10 in no time. It will also make sex SO much better for both of you. Remember that no woman is the same. Just because you explored your ex's body like a boy scout on steroids, does not mean the same pleasure tactics will work with the new lady in your life. Take some time to get to know her special turn-ons.

In the spirit of giving!

Generosity says a lot about a man - like whether you're a man or a boy. Whether it's a foot rub or cunnilingus, you should be willing to give and give some more - out of the kindness of your heart, not because you expect it to be reciprocated. If you come first, find a way to finish her off. It's just the decent thing to do.

HOW TO EXPERIENCE G-SPOT GLORY

With Our Five Handy Tips!

Whether you’re one of those girls whose G-spot is a familiar go-to for fabulous orgasm, or someone who fears it’s just a myth because she just can’t find the damn thing, we’ve got a few tricks up our sleeves to guarantee you’ll find that happy place.

BRING ON THE TOYS

While there’s nothing wrong with good old manual stimulation, a toy can make it easier and more comfortable. You don’t want to get a twist in your wrist in the middle of the proceedings... Solo exploration of the G-spot is much easier using an ergonomically shaped vibrator that is perfect for this pleasurable pursuit! Vibrators are also great for helping you find out what kind of stimulation suits you. Varying modes and speeds provide endless possibilities for satisfaction!

KEEP FIT WITH KEGELS

There’s a reason every women’s magazine talks about Kegel exercises so often. Those muscles in your pelvis really are the key to stronger orgasms, and strengthening them makes G-spot orgasms easier and so much more fun. Use exercise balls to keep your love making muscles tight and toned. Also known as love balls, Ben-wa balls, Kegel balls or Smartballs, these erotic exercise balls also provide teasing stimulation during wear.

PRACTICE YOUR PLEASURE POSITIONS

Some positions make it much easier to reach the G-spot. Generally, rear entry positions are best. Doggie style is the classic position – it allows for deep penetration, G-spot stimulation, AND clitoral stimulation by you or your partner. What could be more fun? Being on top is also a great choice that puts you in control so you can shift to maximise contact and pressure on either your G-spot or clitoris as needed.

LEAVE IT UP TO YOUR PARTNER

Not only will they have easier access and a unique angle but they’ll also learn how to best satisfy you. Undertaking sexual exploration is a great way to build intimacy and trust with your partner. So lie back and let his fingers do the work...

TAKE IT EASY

As in any sexy play, if you’re stressed and worried you’re far less likely to succeed. Take it slow and don’t have too many expectations. Rather just indulge in every pleasure, no matter where you end up. You want to feel all of the new sensations and develop an awareness of what works and what doesn’t. Going slowly most likely means heightened arousal which will make it easier for you or your partner to locate your G-spot.

Stay Awake!

Studies show that post coitus intimacy is very important to a woman. If you always fall asleep after nooky, put some Red Bull on ice and take a cold shower. Obviously dosing off once in a while is permissible, but you can't deprive a woman of cuddly pillow talk every time!

Romance Her... Sometimes

Women love candles and flowers and lingerie and puppies and… however, we also have a primal side that occasionally yearns for something wild. Sometimes we'd rather be treated like a rag doll than a porcelain doll. With all of the daily stresses, it's nice to have someone else take charge and really have their way with us. It's hot… sometimes.

Keep Clean

Sure, sometimes hot and sweaty is the theme to sexy time but in general, stubble hurts woman's precious face and smelling yesterdays gym routine is not a turn on. Lots of guys face the to shave or not to shave down there situation. We're not going to lie to you, while every woman has her preference, most will not object to a little trim. Knowing we're not going to get a mouth full of fuzz makes us more inclined to give some oral action.