sexual knowledge

Impulsive

Impulsiveness is the original characteristic of sex. The strong desire for intimacy in sex and the drive for desperation at any time are sexual impulses. Of course, such an impulse ignites quickly and has strong explosive power, but poor control. The irrationality at this time is the main factor leading to malignant cases in society. Of course, impulse is also a concrete manifestation of the intensity of love. 

Exclusivity

Exclusiveness is the biggest characteristic of sex. It refers to the psychological tendency of people to exclude others from giving any sexual closeness to their sexual objects, which is also the biological instinct. Human exclusivity is affected by many social factors. Monogamy constrains each other physically and psychologically, and morally promotes "exclusiveness". 

Neo-sex

New opposite sex is also very common. When you see a new opposite sex, you are happy, and when you see your favorite opposite sex, you can exude sexual passion. This is also human instinct. No matter whether it is male or female, human beings are only morally suppressed. Men are derailed and women are abducted. We can attack them morally, but this is normal in terms of sexual psychology. How to face it, how to prevent and avoid it, must first understand the sexual psychology of the other party.

Sexual and psychological characteristics of men

1, like to see women. A man carrying a woman on the street will throw a glimpse at the moment when he walks shoulder to shoulder with a beautiful opposite sex. This is not a male lust but a subconscious "multi-vision"

2, like to see women's nudes. Women's long hidden private parts are irritating to men. The scientific argument is to determine the relationship between the inherent sexual and heterosexual functions of an individual.

3, like touching women. Men are naturally born with strong heterosexual contact. The so-called sensibility of a man is that he wants to reach out to a woman, to show the intimacy of both sides, and to be confirmed inside.

4, like talking. Like to talk about is not low-level taste, nor is it indecent, but a normal sexual psychological reflection of men.

5, like to listen to a woman's past. A man is born with exclusivity. When there is a possibility of exclusivity, he hopes that his woman will be exclusive and exclusive from now on. Sometimes in the process of sexual love, there are contextual fantasy guidance to put yourself in important roles and increase sexual desire.

Sexual fear in men

1. Afraid that a sexual partner may abandon his own sexual organs that are too small. This is a problem that men are generally afraid of, just as women worry that their breasts are too small.

2. Can't hold the door of women's "need". From a physiological point of view, women themselves are more likely to have sexual pleasure than men, but it is not so easy for both partners to obtain sexual pleasure at the same time. Therefore, women should be brave enough to guide and dispel men's concerns.

3, afraid of disappointment after ejaculation. Men always have to prove that they are strong and brave, but climax is ejaculation. At this time, men are weak and have a refractory period. They are worried that women have not yet reached the orgasm, and they have psychological “disappointment”.

4. Fear of not being long enough. In fact, it is redundant for men to have this idea. It does not make any sense to measure the time of sexual intercourse. Even if the time is short, it is possible to ejaculate in a short period of time to make women orgasm or multiple orgasms, that is a major success. Delays will only reduce sexual desire and distract.

Sexual inferiority in men

1. Doubts about self-ability. The inferiority of a man in his life is the lack of sexual ability, doubting his sexual ability is the most critical reason among many factors lacking self-confidence. "Eunuchs are always inferior", "Not like a man", etc. Most of them point to this. In fact, the exertion of a man's sexual ability has a direct relationship with his active sexual psychology and the degree of the other's sexual experience. If a man lacks deep confidence in his own sexual abilities, it will directly lead to psychological obstacles, and at the same time, he will manifest a lack of sexual abilities and form a vicious circle.

2. Fear of "rejecting". Men are afraid of being rejected in front of women, whether it is courtship or marriage, especially the most harmful is sexual rejection. Being rejected sexually is likely to have negative emotions, and its inferiority complex can hardly be eliminated by reason. It often takes a long time to restore the confidence of a man.

3. Fear of failure. Men are more fulfilled than women, so they are more afraid of failure than women. You can only succeed but not fail. It is a lack of confidence in yourself. The deeper you are afraid of failure, the easier it is to make mistakes. Women are not afraid of failure, the difference is that while women have inferiority, they can find other excuses to excuse themselves. Men cannot find excuses. They are from society and dominate the family is the responsibility of men. Failure is extremely terrible for men.

The above content can help women understand men's sexual psychology and better harmonious sex life.