sexual knowledge

First of all, it is necessary to clarify a little misunderstanding that Hong Kong people often make. Lubricants are not needed only when there is a problem, but you need to use them when you have sex.

Many people have unpleasant sex experiences. According to a previous survey by the Family Accounting Association, only 30% of Hong Kong respondents are satisfied with their sex life, and nearly 70% are dissatisfied. Although sexual desire is a human instinct, making love is the same as doing homework. It needs to be learned and practiced. However, men and women are naturally sexually excited at different paces, especially when both parties are newbies. When both skills and experience are lacking, if they forcefully enter a vagina that is not wet enough, both parties will only get the word "pain". It may even have adverse effects on future sex life due to less than ideal sex experience.

Unfortunately, most Hong Kong people's sex education enlightenment is probably adult videos, but adult videos only provide sexual fantasies. Since they are fantasies, of course there are some falsehoods. As long as women have sexual desire, they will be "so wet". The fact is that even if there is sexual desire, it still takes a while for a woman to produce secretions. In addition, there are some physiological or psychological factors that affect the secretion, such as the body not recovering after giving birth, mental stress, menopause, diseases, etc., so it may not be Enough to lubricate the process of making love. But it must be emphasized that this situation is very common, and it can happen to women of any age. It is not a problem unique to individual women. Girls do not need to be ashamed because of their insufficient secretions.

As for the workaround? That's right, lubricants.

Lubricants are usually made by imitating human secretions to supplement natural secretions. The lubricating texture makes sex smoother and reduces discomfort caused by friction. Both parties can enter the state faster, and naturally it is easier to enjoy sex.

Just as everyone has to choose creams with different functions and ingredients according to their skin type, why is there only one kind of lubricant? Moreover, the lubricant needs to be applied into the body, so you must be more careful, careful, and careful when choosing it, absolutely you can't ask for it! Qianqi should not use body wash, petroleum jelly, etc. as lubricants. Choosing the wrong lubricant is not enough to lubricate during sex, and some products with unknown ingredients may even have long-term negative effects on the human body.

However, there are all kinds of lubricants on the market, including lubricating oil and lubricating fluid.

As far as the ingredients are concerned, it is best to choose some lubricants made of natural plant extracts, which can not only lubricate for a long time, but more importantly, are mild and safe, and are harmless to the human body. Some brands even add hyaluronic acid as a moisturizing ingredient. Don’t think that hyaluronic acid can only be used for face paint. It is also suitable for lubricants, which can moisturize the vagina and keep it slippery for a long time.

In terms of categories, there are currently three main types of lubricants:

1. Water-based lubricant

Advantages: Moisturizing and dry, easy to clean, suitable for any sexual intercourse, condoms and sex toys

Disadvantages: easy to dry, low viscosity, relatively large dosage

Generally speaking, a water-soluble lubricant can solve most of the lubrication problems. The texture is close to human secretions. It has a wide range of uses and can be applied to any part of the body or any material, whether it is for sex or using an airplane. The cups are ready for use, and are easy to clean, and there will be no sticky discomfort after use.

But the success is Xiao He, and the failure is Xiao He. Since the main ingredient is water, when the water evaporates, the skin will become drier the more you use it, so you need to replenish it regularly. Therefore, in response to this problem, some brands will specially launch products that balance the disadvantages of water-based lubricants, which will last longer than ordinary water-based lubricants while maintaining the original advantages.

2. Silicone lubricant

Advantages: long-lasting lubrication and not easy to dry, moderate viscosity, will not be absorbed by the body, can be used in water,

Disadvantages: Difficult to clean, cannot be used with silicone products

As the name suggests, the main component of silicon-based lubricants is silicone, which is called polymerized siloxanes. Silicone-based lubricants do not contain water, so they do not volatilize and can maintain lubrication. They have a higher viscosity than water-based lubricants and are not absorbed by the human body, so they are not harmful to the human body. Therefore, water-based lubricants are another popular choice. For example, when a mandarin duck wants to play in the water, the water-based lubricant will dissolve in the water, but there will be no troubles in this regard with silicon-based lubricants.

The most important thing is that silicon-based lubricants are very suitable for anal sex, because the back court does not have natural secretions like the vagina, so it is necessary to use lubricants that are more durable and high-viscosity than water-based lubricants. Use silicon-based lubricants As a lubricating medium, it not only ensures the function of the condom, but also reduces the pain of anal sex.

Although silicon-based lubricants have many benefits, it is more troublesome to clean, because silicon is neither soluble in water nor oil, and can be cleaned with ordinary soap. It can only be dried with a damp cloth or wet paper towel until it is not sticky. And be careful not to use it with silicone products, including some sex toys made of silicone and condoms containing silicon. Since silicon spirit and silicone rubber both contain silicon (Silicon), it will produce a chemical reaction, corrode the surface of the silicone rubber, and produce many small holes that are invisible to the naked eye, which is easy to breed bacteria and shorten the life of the product.

3. Oil-based lubricants

Advantages: super lubricating, high viscosity, not volatile

Disadvantages: the most difficult to clean, can not be used with latex condoms

When it comes to bright oil, the main ingredient is naturally oil. Compared with water-based lubricants, because it is not easy to volatilize in the air like water, of course it is more durable.

But the biggest problem with oil-based lubricants is that they cannot be used with latex products at the same time. Most condoms bear the brunt. The main material of condoms on the market is latex. This shortcoming alone has discouraged people. The second is that it will leave a layer of oil film on the private parts after use, which is troublesome to clean up, and it is not easy to decompose, which can easily cause vaginal discomfort, so most of them are only used for masturbation or non-condom anal sex. So it's normal to tie it with lubricant, repeat it many times, it's normal to tie it with lubricant.

But when buying, you still have to choose a suitable lubricant according to your needs, and don't use other inappropriate substitutes indiscriminately, otherwise it will not only make you feel uncomfortable during sex, but also affect your physical health. If you really don’t know how to choose, you can share with Mary, always use the lubricant next to your body, so you can choose it casually?