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Cliché or not, there are certain things that every man will love. Ideally, they should always be in sex. Let's find out what it is.

For a long time, there was an opinion that men dream of an always ready partner with a dream body that is open to everything. Fortunately, this notion has been debunked. But the question remains: what do men like in bed?

Men also have different tastes and preferences: what one considers “good sex” leaves the other indifferent. But on some issues, the opinions of men are unanimous. This is what we will discuss next.

1. When a partner enjoys

Not all men think only of themselves! The “orgasmic gap” between men and women is still a sad reality, but in reality, there should not be such an imbalance in getting an orgasm between women and men. For men, sex is primarily a feeling of pleasure.

In the "Simplified Sex" study by the opinion polling institute TNS Healthcare, 72 percent of respondents said they felt responsible for their partner's sexual satisfaction, and about two-thirds even said that partner pleasure is essential to their own satisfaction.

2. One word: blowjob

Some women love to do it, others think it's terrible. But when it comes to men's favorite sexual practices, blowjobs either come first or second. There are men who are even willing to risk their careers and marriages because of blowjobs (think of Bill Clinton). In a Forsa survey, two-thirds of men said they wanted more oral sex - in a passive role, of course.

Blowjob is very important for men and you don't have to think long to understand why. It's a pleasure, he doesn't have to make an effort, he doesn't risk suddenly becoming a father, and he can feel like a king when a woman kneels before his treasure.

However, on a deeper level, it is also about love and acceptance. Many men perceive a blowjob as an expression of love for their woman, as she devotes all her attention to him. In addition, men during oral sex think about whether they smell good, whether they have a taste, whether the partner likes the process, and so on. They believe that if a woman gives them a blowjob , then she completely accepts them and submits. Who doesn't like it?

3. When a woman knows what she wants

Modern women fight for equal rights, only in bed they still show restraint. According to the Simplified Sex study, 60 percent of men want women to take the initiative more often.

Feeling confident also seems to be the key to success in bed. Men want a woman who has an idea of what she wants from sex and is not shy about talking about it. There is nothing more repulsive than a woman who lies motionless in bed, has no desire and only thinks about whether her partner will be able to see the extra fat.

4. More often and more

The unfortunate result of a study by the German Society for Sex Research in collaboration with scientists from the City University of London is that half of all men surveyed are unhappy with the frequency of sexual intercourse in their relationships. The number of dissatisfied men over 30 reaches 60 percent. The reason they consider the lack of desire in the partner.

However, men often underestimate how much sex their women really want. Not everyone has a headache, and not everyone is willing to pretend to be asleep in order not to have sex. Only open communication and experiments in bed can solve the problem.

5. More new

The same study also found that 69 percent of men want more variety in bed. Therefore, we will return to what we wrote about above: ladies, just take matters into your own hands. It is best to take the initiative not only in bed, but also in other places of the apartment. It is also worth changing the position and time of sex more often.

6. Women want to cuddle, men want to sleep - or not?

Many believe that men hug their woman only to please her and do not attach much importance to caresses and hugs. However, a study by the Kinsey Institute found that men benefit greatly from hugs. Men who hug and kiss often with their wives or girlfriends are 3 times happier than men who are stingy with affection.